This post was first shared as issue 13 of These Sacred Words
Today is a big day for us. Two years ago Matthew and I moved our lives across the country so we could eventually plant a church outside of Denver, Colorado. Today the church we have dreamed about and prayed for had its first service.
It’s a little surreal, seeing something we’ve hoped for for the last two years become a tangible reality. But I won’t lie, there have been days where it has been hard to hope for good things (about this church and about many other things).
So this post is about hope and how hope can feel impossible. But also how hope is exactly what we’re guaranteed in the Christian life.
I have a confession. My expectations towards and about God can be incredibly out of whack.
Sometimes, if I’m honest, I find myself hesitating to expect good things from God. Sometimes, it almost seems easier to expect hard things from him.
I see this play out in my prayers, as I hesitantly say “Lord, if it is your will” and “not what I want but what you want, God.”
Now please hear me. These words can reflect a great heart posture. It is good and right to pray according to the Lord’s will, we must always do this. But sometimes I realize that I am praying these words in an attempt to protect my heart from disappointment.
There I said it. Please don’t judge me too harshly.
But it’s true. I find that I couch my prayers with seeming open-handedness, when in fact I am just scared to believe for great things from God.
Does anyone else feel this tension? If so, please tell me how you’ve reconciled this in your own heart and prayers. I’m still trying to find what the balance looks like between praying open-handedly and yet still hoping and asking boldly.
I think what it comes down to is this question that I have for myself (and for you):
Do we have the faith to pray boldly, knowing that even if God says ‘no’ or has something different for us that he will still be good and faithful to provide for and sustain us?
Because here’s the thing. Our hope ultimately IS secure. We can pray boldly and expectantly because we can be fully confident that at the return of Christ all things will be made right. We are free to hope freely because we know that our hope is not in this life. We are able to expect good things from God always because one day we will be free of the brokenness of the world and of our own flesh.
If we are looking ultimately to our future in Christ – and not to things on this earth – we will not be broken by our unmet expectations. Rather we will be able to take whatever God gives (whether it’s a ‘yes’ or a ‘no’ to our prayer), thank him, and say, “this is good.”
May you hope and pray boldly, knowing that God is good. When you pray “Lord, not my will but yours,” may you not say these words to protect yourself from disappointment, but instead to open-handedly hold your prayers and hopes out to God. As you hope in God’s eternal promise, may everything else in this world seem less sufficient in light of the coming redemption of all things.